Sunday, March 14, 2010

Eggies to Embies- They Grow Up So Fast!


The weekend is winding down and I am realizing what a blog slacker I have been. My wonderful husband was kind of enough to post this update while I was unconscious and having my eggs removed and was even nice enough to allow me to be the one to share the results of said egg retrieval but I waited until now to actually post an update. Bad blogger.

As Chad so kindly reported, I was pretty fearless going into the procedure, but that it must be said how easy that is to do when you're asleep before they even wheel you into the operating room. I remember the anesthesiologist telling me he was putting "the good stuff" into my IV and the next thing I knew he was shaking my shoulder telling me it was time to wake up. And as quick as it felt, I later learned it really was almost that fast. I rested for a bit and got some much needed pain meds for the aching in my abdomen, and then it was time to be on our way. Dr Jedi had been out to let Chad know all had gone well, and they would be calling shortly to let us know how many eggs were retrieved.

My phone rang even before we got home and we got the very exciting news that 21 eggs had been retrieved! The left ovary caused absolutely no problems and he had full access to all of my follicles! Nothing left to do but go home, rest and wait for a call the next morning to tell us the overnight fertilization report.

Early in the process of our IVF journey, Chad and I spent a week talking to our doctor, consulting books and websites and discussing with each other whether or not to utilize
intracytoplasmic sperm injection i.e. ICSI, in this cycle. For those that don't know, ICSI is basically the process of directly injecting a single sperm into an egg to cause fertilization. After weighing the pros and cons and taking into account Chad's high motility, we decided against ICSI because we felt that given the choice, we'd prefer the eggs to fertilize more closely to how they would inside my body. But we also knew that we still ran the risk that fertilization would fail. No one knows why but even with healthy sperm and eggs there are times when the embryologist comes in the morning after and finds that fertilization has completely failed. Needless to say, we were a bit anxious for the phone call that would deliver the news of whether such a fate had befallen our 21 little eggies.

Luckily, the call came quickly on Saturday morning and we learned that of the 21 eggs retrieved 15 had fertilized! 15! I was so excited and relieved to hear that number! The nurse told me that this most likely meant we would be doing a day 5 blastocyst transfer on Wednesday, but to be on stand-by for the possibility of a day 3 transfer on Monday. She said they would call me at about 10 o'clock Monday morning with another update.

So we spent the rest of the weekend as if it was just any other weekend. Lunch with friends, afternoon nap, picnic in the park, but really we both know this hasn't been any other weekend. I keep thinking about my embies. I keep wondering how they're doing. If they are growing and how quickly. I wonder how many are boys and how many are girls, which ones have the DNA for my nose and Chad's ears. I already feel so attached, so maternal.

We drove past the center where we know they are last night, and couldn't help but say hi to them as we did so. We told them we hope they are doing well and that we are so excited to know they are there. It is a truly surreal feeling to know my potential children exist, they are dividing and growing and they are doing it outside of body, about 20 miles away as a matter of fact. It makes me feel like I already am pregnant in a way, just not physically. I have loved my child since before we even started trying to concieve, but now that I know embryos exist that are made up of me and Chad, I can't help but feel my heart swell even more. It is truly a miracle to know that we (with the help of a wonderful team of doctors and embryologists) have created life that is part me and part him. It exists in this world and it just blows me away every time I think about it. What blows me away even more is how much I already love them.

16 comments:

Tiffany said...

Oh Holly that's so fantastic!! I can't wait to hear the update! If your doing a 3dt, good luck today!! If not, good luck Wednesday. You and Chad are in my prayers!

Gia said...

I am praying for you and Chad. So exciting about the embies!! Good luck today if they do the transfer!

Good Eggies said...

Well you got the motherlode!!!

Congratulations and good luck!

Megan said...

Holly, this is so exciting!!! I'm glad glad the retrieval went well and that you have so many fertilized eggs!!! I can't wait for your transfer and hope everything goes well! Keeping you in my thoughts!

Candidly_Andrea said...

I'm so excited for you. And thanks a lot for making me tear up in the last paragraph :) Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you wait for your transfer :)

Beckie's Infertile said...

Woo Hoo! Great news for you guys! I am praying that transfer goes well and soon you will get you BFP!

Hugs and Love!

Shorty said...

wonderful news! I pray it continues to go well and wonderful!

Jenny said...

How wonderful! I would feel maternal like that too. No matter how far they may be, they are still a part of you both.

Can't wait to hear more updates!

Adge said...

thats great news so far. I hope the rest goes well for you guys

Miracle in the Making said...

I'm so excited for you Holly! Lots of positive thoughts and prayers for you and all 15 baby embies!!

BabyWid said...

Thats fantastic news! Good luck with the transfer! I will pray that they will be sticky little beans!!

Pregnant Yuppy said...

What great numbers. You give me hope for my retrieval! Please KUP as you progress.

Katie Cupcake said...

Isn't the "good stuff" great! They have to wave it near me and I'm knocked out. You had great numbers and I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for your little ones. I keep talking to mine and they are in a different state :)

Tillie said...

that's amazing how many fertilized embryos you have!! I cannot wait till you post the next update! Good luck with the transfer!!!

Holly said...

I love them too, Holly! I pray for them everyday.

Waiting Lisa said...

I just want you to know I am thinking of you and hoping everything goes well tomorrow.